I shared with my small
group the other day that I was stressing over what to do about Halloween. It
was not even about whether to celebrate trick-or-treat or to go to the church
festival, it was just about the candy. My 3 year old sneaks into the cupboard,
the pantry and the fridge and finds things that are disasterous to her blood
sugars. We cleared out the bedrooms of all candy that came to us from a class
party or a birthday party or whatever, but she can still find one hidden
somewhere when we are not looking. What will I do if we bring two or three bags
of miscellaneous candy into the house? How will the boys or even she feel if we
say,"no candy for the household, period." After thinking it over I
realized that the main joy for my kids was dressing up. When I discussed it
with them further, they said they also liked the part where they discovered
what surprises were in their bag, even if only a few of the kinds of candy were
to their liking. So we came up with a plan. We continue to have candy around
the house for when people are low. We have designated one locked place to keep
it that only Mom or Dad can get into. We decided that the kids would all dress
in their costumes and live it up at our Harvest Festival and collect their
prizes (candy which we helped to donate). After the grand "dump and
discover" of what they got, the kids agreed at least for this year that it
would be fun to give rather than receive and hand out the candy that they can't
eat to the trick-or-treaters. Then we would buy them a small stash each of
their absolute favorites to keep in the lock box. It went over well and was
easier than I thought it would be. The kids are still going to participate in
the part of Halloween that they like the best and we won't have any random
candy showing up for months to come. The event is still a couple weeks away,
but hopefully it will go smoothly, and I feel better about it just having a
plan in place.
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