Thursday, September 5, 2024

Babies, Baby Steps and Blessings

 I have been trying to follow Dave Ramsey's Baby Steps program from the Financial Peace class my husband and I attended around 2 years ago. We had already made a big investment purchase using most of our savings before entering the class and we weren't sure if it was the wisest idea, but it was done, so we moved forward as best we could learning to budget and try to live within our means. We were already debt free (Baby Step 2) except for the mortgage(s) and then, whoosh, all three children were back home with us following graduation from their respective institutions. Some of the household expenses expanded and I felt we were not moving ahead from the step we were on which was Step 3 - fully funding our emergency savings - the recommended amount being 3-6 months of your monthly expenses . Every month we were not able to set anything aside for this, let alone put aside more toward retirement other than the very small amount (nowhere near 15%) going tax free into my husband's 401K. Knowing that he wants to retire in the next 2 years, I tried boosting our income with side hustles like Ramsey recommends, but found nothing that brought a significant change.

You needed all that background to understand my mindset when I went to visit my cousin to help when her baby was being born in late July. She is a stay-at-home mom who makes her living sharing about health and wellness products she loves on her Instagram and Facebook. Since I am a very low-key internet person I knew doing something like that would not be for me even though I admired her very much. However, while I was there, I came across some other products, more household and sundries items, that kept popping up. "What do you want me to use for laundry?" I'd ask, and she would direct me to the bottle of liquid that was concentrated to give you 9x the use of a giant liquid that was mostly water. "What do you want me to use for the dishwasher?" and she would direct me under the sink where there was liquid for that, liquid for hand washing, spray for disinfecting, a degreaser spray, and floor cleaner, all of which were marked clearly that they were safe for children and pets and also cleaner for the environment. I thought, "This is really important for her and these children, and I could need these when I move to our retirement home that has a septic system and requires safer ingredients to be used."

When I got home, I looked up the products online and found that I needed a referral from her to shop the store, and she gave it to me via text right away. I was blown away by the myriad of completely American made products they had, ranging from cleaning to fitness to make-up and beyond.  Not only that, but the welcome video showed me that I could make money from home if I shared the referral just like she had shared it with me. No-Brainer! I signed up right away and shared the idea with my daughter and she agreed it would definitely be a possible way for us to work together to supplement our household's income as well as possibly sustain her when my husband and I retire and move away.

Now that my homeschooling days are behind me, I have the time to pour into this side-hustle and reach for my Baby Steps and next steps. In this really difficult and tumultuous age we live in, I know that many people need a little extra to help them get by. My husband, bless his heart, works overtime almost every day and I have been looking for something that would take some of that pressure off him as well as give me something that could continue on into our "Second Act". It is such a blessing that this came into our lives right now and I can't wait to see what God has in store for us and those around us in coming days. Stay tuned! You might be receiving an invite to our home for a casual get-together to check out the store and, if you wanted, the business opportunity. No pressure at all, just a hopeful message of possibilities from myhandsful to you.

Friday, March 31, 2023

Closer than the air around me - a reflection for April Fool's Day



 I was thinking about the fact that God's ways are right and true whether a person believes it or not, in the context of April Fool's Day, because I like to call it "Atheists Day". You may or may not have heard the joke about an atheist in court arguing that national holidays give Christians preference with Christmas and Easter but there is no special holiday for people who believe there is no God. The judge answers him and says, "yes, there is, it's called April Fools Day". (Psalm 14:1) Today, when the truth hit me, it was not about God's existence  but rather that His presence and love are with me, whether I choose to see it or not. Just as an unbeliever's view doesn't change who God is, my view doesn't change the fact that He is with me. There is a song off one of my favorite Amy Grant albums from the 80's called "Everywhere I go". The title for today's post is from a line in that song which says "closer than the air around me, you surround me always..." We learn in basic science class that the molecules of air are pressing in against us even if we can't see or feel them. The point of the songwriter is that God is even more so, as He always is...

I have often thought that if I am lazy or unfaithful about spending time in the Word or prayer, then I have shut off some invisible valve and I am missing the benefit of His love and care. We used to say in some circles, "If you feel far from God, guess who moved?" I found myself asking "How can we move away from God, He's omnipresent?" So I began thinking of it in the same terms as I do with those unbelievers. Our perception of how close or far God is in our lives does not change the Truth that He is involved, to will and to work His perfect plan. Ephesians talks about how God blessed us in the heavenly realms, which are all under His divine sovereignty - even when we can't see or feel Him -  his Spirit is there with us, for His pleasure and Glory. (Eph. 1:1-14) Any benefit we are missing is because we are not resting in the knowledge of what is true, everyday, all the time, wherever we are. Sometimes what we need is to ask for the eyes to see.

Lord, help me today, to remember that however changeable and fickle I am, You are steadfast and unmoving and here beside me, always...